
It snowed a bit last night. So much so that we were hoping for a school snow day. This morning it was time to shovel out the driveway and front walk. This summer we were given an old snow blower from G's brother. I told G this morning that I would rather shovel than blow. I got rid our gas lawn mower for an push mower this summer, why would I start using a snow blower after 9 years of shoveling? Not to mention, you reek of exhaust after using one of those things.
So I shoveled and G blew snow with the fumey blower. We both smelled like fumes and G decided the blower was a pain in the ass and put it at the curb where it was briskly snatched up and taken away.
I saw two different neighbors walk by as we blew/shoveled snow and I wondered if they were thinking: Aren't those folks the eat local people? Why the hell are they using a snow blower?
Clearly, I've got insecurity issues! :)
That thought came from a conversation I had with my midwifery partner just yesterday. We were talking about how she was judged for having 3 cars by a well-intentioned friend who couldn't believe two adults w/o kids would have 3 vehicles. Two of them are older, but gets-you-where-you-need-to-go cars, and one of them is so un-road worthy, that they use it as farm equipment-- essentially using it to haul heavy stuff all over their rural property when needed.
We live in the city and have 3 cars. We've had 3 cars for at least the last 5 years, if not longer. I would LOVE it if we didn't need to depend on cars so much. But G's job is 30 minutes away via car. He could bike to work, but the roads to work have no shoulder for cars, let alone bikes. And yes I know, Share The Roads and all that biz, but honestly, the thought of him biking at 4am on a 50mph road that generally has a lot of gravel trucks and pick ups flying down it, with NO shoulder, makes me incredibly nervous.
As for me, well I am on call. Some of our clients live 60-70 miles away. I can't be out on a bus somewhere when a client suddenly needs me. Not to mention, I've got two big luggage pieces and an oxygen tank to haul around. I've been trying to figure out how to safely carry birth gear on my motorcycle for years, but I just can't wrap my head around it!
So why 3 cars? We call it our "Fleet". All 3 cars are 20+ years old and they run fab most of the time. However, it's not uncommon to have only 2 of the 3 running at any one time. I keep hearing arguments about what's cheaper in the long-run: getting a new Hybrid for $28,000 or taking care of the old car you have. (One Volvo has 300K miles, the other 150K and we have a VW Rabbit that's older than Adam and gets 28 mpg.)
So yes, 3 cars for both of us. Believe me, if you need your midwife to come right away, you want her to have a car handy!




